Intentional kink. Real life. Lived experience.
We’ve been together for nearly two decades, and kink has been part of our relationship from the beginning.
DoingIt.blog is our shared space for exploring intentional kink, long-term D/s, handmade gear, personal stories, and the ongoing work of building a life together on purpose.
This is where we write about what we learn, what we make, and what we live.
What You’ll Find Here
Intentional Kink
Reflections on D/s, communication, negotiation, and what kink looks like in a long-term relationship.
Real Experience
Honest stories from our life in kink — what works, what doesn’t, and what we continue to learn.
Craft & Creation
Handmade gear, practical tools, and the process of building things meant to be used and lived with.
Stories & Fiction
Kink is also a space for imagination and storytelling. Alongside our real-life experiences, we share erotic fiction and creative writing inspired by the dynamics we live.
Why We Do This On Purpose
Kink has always been something we chose deliberately — something we build and return to over time.
This site isn’t about performance or perfection. It’s about a real relationship, real growth, and the life we’re creating together.
You’re Welcome Here
This space is for people who live kink as part of real life — long-term partners, curious beginners, experienced players, makers, and thinkers.
We’re glad you’re here.